What NOT to do as a husband #fyp #husbandsoftiktok #wivesoftiktok #fairplay #parenting #feminism #dismantlethepatriarchy #relationship #marriage #support #partnering

I wish I’d had the humility to really HEAR this previously. In order for your wife/gf to tell you what she’s really thinking, there must be TRUST that you are a completely supportive partner, or PAIN such that she no longer sees a future with you. #fyp #foryoupage #communication #longtermrelationship #marriage #husbandsoftiktok #wivesoftiktok #prevention #curiosity #healing #dismantlethepatriarchy #listening

Replying to @patriusthegnome #fyp #parenting #mentalload #marriage #dismantlethepatriarchy #value #community #husbandsoftiktok #wivesoftiktok #opportunitycost

decide for yourself if Robbie Harvey is the type of person you want in a place of power. for me, it's a no. #robbieharvey #robbieharveycontroversy #intersectionalfeminism #feministsoftiktok #dismantlethepatriarchy #womenempowerment

Replying to @nina Tales of a Crumbling Marriage Part 1 - Let us know if you have any questions you want us to address together! #fyp #marriage #longtermrelationship #wivesoftiktok #husbandsoftiktok #dismantlethepatriarchy @J Woah

THE BARBIE MOVIE IS ABOUT BARBIE?! WHAAAAT??? #barbiemovie #dismantlethepatriarchy #womensupportingwomen #feministsoftiktok #greenscreenvideo #greenscreen

Replying to @KB @J Woah week continues! We discuss the impact of birth order in relationship & what happens when two eldests hook up #fyp #birthorder #firstborn #adhd #wivesoftiktok #husbandsoftiktok #longtermrelationship #healing #parentsoftiktok #influence #generationaltrauma #askforhelp #dismantlethepatriarchy #marriage #neurodivergent

Replying to @Placeholder89 Hoping that sharing practical examples of how I missed the mark in seeing my partner at critical stages might help prevent others from making similar mistakes. Male socialization has long emphasized centering oneself, a trait that is a set up for failure both as husband and father. But I believe with better info we can do better. #fyp #foryoupage #marriage #parenting #fatherhood #dads #whoisthisfor #fairplay #support #mentaload #mentallabor #moms #stayathomemom #relationship #husbandsoftiktok #wivesoftiktok #minimumstandardofcare #parentsoftiktok #toxicmasculinity #dismantlethepatriarchy #caregiving #priorities #values #dating #qualityofcare #healing

A halftime speech for guys. If something is not working, we must have the integrity & courage to try a new approach. Patriarchy has hurt us all, but especially women. When confronted with this pain of a failed system that has prioritized profits over people, internal reflection must be amplified and focused through the feedback of those harmed most. Instead of scapegoating women, we must learn to listen and really hear her. The answers have been here all along, validated by the lived experience of those with marginalized and oppressed intersectional identities. #fyp #pain #foryoupage #communication #dismantlethepatriarchy #anger #misdirection #selfreflection #relationship #willtochange #growthmindset #reparations #community #capitalism #grief #healingjourney #systemfailure #personalresponsibility #listening #feminism #misogyny #change #marriage #longtermrelationship

#stitch with @Megan Rose another one bites the dust. #thevibewithky #womensupportingwomen #feministsoftiktok #dismantlethepatriarchy #greenscreenvideo

When we as men learn to de-center ourselves, the lives of those around can finally have space to grow. Good intention is not the same thing as good impact, nor an excuse to avoid taking responsibility for causing harm. Love is not transactional. #fyp #foryoupage #archive #dabda #acceptance #denial #anger #bargaining #relationship #marriage #stages #toxicmasculinity #transaction #husbandsoftiktok #wivesoftiktok #growthmindset #dobetter #dating #therapy #decentermen #respect #dismantlethepatriarchy #sahm #emotionallabor #defaultno

Replying to @jweavs8 A few things… 1) we should never be treating our lover as opposing counsel 2) not everyone has the capacity to put their feelings into words (especially when exhausted) & this isn’t grounds to dismiss those feelings and 3) I don’t love winter but hard not to love a snow sunset #fyp #foryoupage #relationshipmistakes #marriage #longtermrelationship #listening #dismantlethepatriarchy #husbandsoftiktok #wivesoftiktok #dating #christianity #exvangelical #toxicmasculinity #grief #healing

Replying to @manchildalorian the apology was a standard good apology, but reading @WatchfulCoyote's website (aka: @Jack) was tough. i think Jack may need to do some more internal work before selling a coaching service, but i currently don't perceive him as a "Robbie Harvey". #watchfulcoyote #feministsoftiktok #dismantlethepatriarchy #niceguys #intersectionalfeminism

Replying to @SnoozeAlarmMom The mental load of beng a good parent is immense. Without support from your partner and/or your community it can be a labyrinth you lose yourself in. How does one achieve a dream if you no longer sleep? #fyp #foryoupage #toxicmasculinity #dismantlethepatriarchy #parents #parenting #parentsoftiktok #fairplay #mentalload #support #community #dadsoftiktok #momsoftiktok #loseyourself #husbandsoftiktok #wivesoftiktok #relationship #marriage #dating #opportunitycost #fullpartner

Replying to @wanitawobble the allegations regarding @The Vibe With Ky are incredibly serious. and instead of addressing them, he's trying to silence them. imo, what isn't said speaks just as loud as what is. #thevibewithky #controversy #dismantlethepatriarchy #feministsoftiktok #intersectionalfeminism

If you’re a husband looking to build intimacy & trust in your relationship with your wife, here is a list of things NOT to do #onthisday #foryoupage #fyp #dismantlethepatriarchy #husbandsoftiktok #wivesoftiktok #marriage #relationship #change #exvangelical #communication #defaultno #yesand #partner

#stitch with @Jack not only did myself (and other women) already put in this labour privately with Robbie Harvey, but we did so in public videos you could have sourced. and if you think many were "being too harsh", i made a balanced critique based off of my private chat with Robbie: @Jamieson Eileen — and if you assume the only voice he'll listen to is yours, then you're furthering our point that he is not actually an ally to women. #robbieharvey #womenempowerment #dismantlethepatriarchy #greenscreenvideo

Joined by the one & only @Jaime to discuss the unequal mental load placed on women for family planning & the expectation of seggs as a “woman’s job” in marriage. We knew almost nothing entering marriage & it changed everything. #fyp #foryoupage #marriage #familyplanning #birthcontrol #longtermrelationship #dating #husbandsoftiktok #wivesoftiktok #weaponizedincompentence #dismantlethepatriarchy #badinfo #exvangelical #christianitytiktok #fundamentalist #misogyny #taboo #sharedresponsibility

Replying to @tic_tact_no___o My partner has never cared who got the credit where I was driven by this question. Turns out when we have a TRUE sense of self-worth we no longer have to treat every situation and every person as a chance to prove ourselves. Relationships require humility & trust. #fyp #ego #foryoupage #communication #dismantlethepatriarchy #pride #selfworth #therapy #healing #humility #trust #collaboration #groupwork #respect #mysogyny #husbandsoftiktok #wivesoftiktok #marriage #longtermrelationship #dating #redflags #greenflags

Replying to @SilentE8 “Who is this REALLY for?” So many of our actions “on behalf” of someone else can blind us to the ways in which we are trying to mask our own wounds, and worse - keep us from seeing new harm we may be causing in the process #fyp #foryoupage #kids #communication #relationship #values #minimumstandardofcare #marriage #parenting #fatherhood #dadsoftiktok #momsoftiktok #sahm #husbandsoftiktok #sahp #wivesoftiktok #fundad #lostmom #dismantlethepatriarchy #therapy #capitalism #dobetter #family #worklifebalance #priorities

#stitch with @ShearingShedVlogs cis men prove time and time again that they don't perceive women or femme presenting people as deserving of respect. this behaviour is egregious. #misogynisticculture #dismantlethepatriarchy #maleprivilege #feministsoftiktok #dobetter

When you ask a guy what he loves about a woman, he might start listing the things she does for him. In a transactional & performance-based society perhaps this shouldn’t be surprising, but it is disheartening. Know better. Do better. #fyp #foryoupage #seeing #transaction #performance #utility #dismantlethepatriarchy #feminist #marriage #longtermrelationship #parentsoftiktok #mothersday #husbandsoftiktok #wivesoftiktok #healing #therapy #selfworth #onthisday #capitalism #humanity #raisingboys #projection #value

So much of what men think we are providing women is offered without curiosity or true consent #onthisday #fyp #foryoupage #healingjourney #husbandsoftiktok #wivesoftiktok #marriage #longtermrelationship #dating #maleapproval #malegaze #badtrade #socialization #therapy #socialwork #capitalism #ick #exvangelical #christianitytiktok #dismantlethepatriarchy #otd

Narratives re: PMS skew negative, but what if the experience was culturally viewed with compassion over condescension? Are we missing out on some important truths? #foryoupage #fyp #pms #honest #mood #timeofthemonth #wivesoftiktok #husbandsoftiktok #menustration #communication #dismantlethepatriarchy #otd #feminism #marriage #dating #truth #nofilter #crazy #education

i really shoulda brushed my hair before filming this. do ya think Alpha King Nima would trade me his hairbrush for some dating advice? #dismantlethepatriarchy #toxicmasculinity #alphakingnima #feministsoftiktok #intersectionalfeminism

Replying to @Mel Hamlett In a disconnected society men often further fray the fabric by pursuing goals & hobbies that reflect the worship of individual achievement, leaving the women who are supporting us & our children they are caring for as accessories to our accomplishments. Tragically miscalculating what is really inportant & selfishly overlooking what makes any ‘success’ possible. Having a family changes everything for a woman, we should expect the same from men #fyp #foryoupage #achievement #extremesports #toxicmasculinity #marathon #husbandsoftiktok #wivesoftiktok #relationship #marriage #support #parenting #reciprocity #goals #dismantlethepatriarchy

“I love you” doesn’t mean much if you are either unwilling or unable to listen with humility, lean in with curiosity, and readily accept influence in an intimate relationship. #fyp #foryoupage #influence #bidsforconnection #defaultno #trust #humility #curiosity #growthmindset #communication #feminism #longtermrelationship #dismantlethepatriarchy #marriage #dating #redflags #greenflags #husbandsoftiktok #wivesoftiktok #healingjourney #exvangelical #tellmemore #askaquestion

Replying to @BJHales77 So much of our language and notions around loyalty are unexamined antiquities reflecting a desire to POSSESS someone rather than actually love them. Love can be hard, but healthy relationships never need to be controlled. #dismantlethepatriarchy #fyp #foryoupage #relationship #husbandsoftiktok #wivesoftiktok #marriage #longtermrelationship #dating #communication #betrayal #control #manipulation #therapy #codependency #attachment

Replying to @Rage-Against-The-Dishwasher In an ideal world, all people would feel free to speak their mind, knowing they would be heard AND that those listening would try to meet needs expressed (when healthy to do so). Turns out, women have long been doing their part to build this world, but men have not reciprocated. So yes, verbal communication is important. But so are the reasons why someone may not be using their voice, and their desires are no less worthy. It is time for men to put our egos aside and get to work closing the emotional labor gap in relationships. #fyp #foryoupage #communication #relationship #dating #premarital #equality #longtermrelationship #marriage #healing #dismantlethepatriarchy #husbandsoftiktok #wivesoftiktok #emotionallabor #malefragility #defensiveness #becurious

Sometimes the most courageous question we can ask about our beliefs or our behaviors is, “Is this working?” and if the honest answer is no, the next challenge is to decide to be brave enough to try a different approach. #lifelessons #fyp #foryoupage #toxicmasculinity #communication #honesty #defensiveness #growthmindset #dismantlethepatriarchy #trauma #healingjourney #coaching #husbandsoftiktok #wivesoftiktok #marriage #parenting #dating #longtermrelationship #athlete

Replying to @Sarah Burkey Okay, this one is a next level therapy journey. Meaning it has taken me years to get here & for sure my younger self would have adamantly disagreed in an attempt to avoid confronting pain. But may they who have ears, let them hear. #healing #fyp #foryoupage #growthmindset #dismantlethepatriarchy #truth #longtermrelationship #marriage #dating #courting #hardthings #communication #therapy #worth #trauma #exvangelical #christian #husbandsoftiktok #wivesoftiktok

#duet with @Mother Liz I share feminist content because we can reduce the abuse of everyone if we address a lot of these issues. #dismantlethepatriarchy #powerandcontrol #manipulation #violenceagainstwomen #domesticviolence #emotionalabuse #covertabuse #toxicrelationships #divorce #narcissism #feminist #notallmen

An honest conversation on “is seggs a need?” reflecting on the experience of nearly 20 years of marriage. #marriage #foryoupage #fyp #longtermrelationship #intimacy #belonging #realtalk #husbandsoftiktok #wivesoftiktok #dismantlethepatriarchy #healing

When men are able to fully revel in the accomplishments of women we might also find permission to embrace the neglected parts of our own true selves. Congrats to Caitlin Clarke and her Iowa teammates for breaking records & healing wounds #fyp #foryoupage #emotional #ncaawbb #caitlinclark #iowa #rolemodel #recordbreaker #dismantlethepatriarchy #itsok #feminism #equality #equity #basketball #parenting #men #dadsoftiktok #boymom #titleix

Replying to @Jen Kittrell Back with @Jaime to “make an all out stand” for high quality comprehensive seggs ed. Did you know that recent preclinical trials for nonhormonal male birth control showed 99% effectiveness with no side effects? #fyp #foryoupage #birthcontrol #familyplanning #sideffects #pill #hamilton #husbandsoftiktok #wivesoftiktok #hormonalchanges #marriage #longtermrelationship #dating #sharedresponsibility #misogyny #christianitytiktok #exvangelical #fundamentals #weaponizedincompentence #dismantlethepatriarchy

the ONLY justification for him hitting her with a brick is if he felt his life was in danger. someone turning you down romantically, even if they're not polite about it, is not life-threatening. and someone should have been there for Rho. her community failed her in that moment and we are all continuing to fail her. DO BETTER. #protectblackwomen #dismantlethepatriarchy #misogynisticculture

I love Pedro Pascal as an actor, but something to consider regarding our cultural values as reflected in our language. #fyp #foryoupage #sex #pedropascal #violence #power #bodycount #media #mandalorian #entertainment #usa #culture #doubleentendre #fantastic4 #dismantlethepatriarchy #lastofus

#stitch with @thebarbermosaic since we’re asking……#fyp #women #dismantlethepatriarchy

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#stitch with @FRENCHIE_15 #howtofixeverything #dismantlethepatriarchy #theproblem #narcissism #onthisday

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What isn't repaired, repeats. my 💅 artist is my daughter. I love them. #thegreatdivorce #dismantlethepatriarchy #emotions

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#duet with @Step into your power #dismantlethepatriarchy #womeninskydiving #skydivergirls #fyp

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