Your first healthy relationship after an unhealthy one is going to challenge you. True, healthy love demands effort and self-awareness. Make sure you embrace growth, differentiate your past struggles from the present, and avoid self-sabotage. It takes work for lasting, healthy love #toxicrelationship #toxicrelationshipadvice #selfsabotage #relationshipquote #relationshipsquotes

Sept. 7, 2020: I was going through an old journal entry and found this. I didn’t even start posting on social media yet. This was written 3 months before my very first video and at the end of the most unhealthy relationship I’ve ever been in. I was tired from trying to communicate and getting stonewalled, trying to address my needs/boundaries and getting gaslit, to where I’d end up even more confused because I’d always end up consoling her when I’d address my own concerns. I felt emotionally unsafe, and unsure of the direction of where my relationship was going. I couldn’t communicate it because I’d get shut down. Moral of the story is: if you have to resort to journaling about it because you aren’t given the space to communicate effectively, it’s probably not the relationship/person for you lol #selfworth #selfworthtiktok #selfworthmatters #selfworthiseverything

Say yes now, figure out the rest later #doitscared #selfgrowth #selfgrowthjourney #gentlereminder #growthjourney

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One of the most helpful things you can do before you get into your next relationship is taking the time to really reflect on what it is that you personally needed to change/improve on in your last relationship. Holding yourself accountable and not seeing yourself as the hero can be hard! But it can also lead to a lot of internal growth that can benefit your next relationship #breakups #breakupadvice #postbreakup #breakuptiktok