To celebrate our financial triumph in this season of our marriage, God has moved us to finally share our journey with finances in our 12 years of marriage. One of our greatest lessons in all of this was realizing how good God had been and how we were never good stewards of those blessings. It wasn’t always that we didn’t have money, but more so that we didn’t know what to do with that money. We didn’t utilize it to a positive advantage and was too busy living, instead of preparing first. We are sharing this so you can see that if God did it for us, he will do it for you. Call on that mountain to move and it indeed will, in God’s divine timing. We pray that this gives you a bit of hope, hope that we know we needed in those hard times, and helps you to see that the light is coming, just give God time. Let us know if you’d like to see our own personal perspectives on how we handled our finances in our marriage. It’s all a mix of needing to heal, needing to learn, needing to communicate effectively and needing to be a team, not enemies. Thank you for all you have done for us! Your love, support and prayers has truly changed our lives. So many of you have said, God has big things coming our way. Well, those big things are rolling in daily and we are so excited! You will get to witness us purchase our first home, our dream car as we know that God will continue to pour into us, giving you the proof you need to know he will do the same for you! CANT WAIT! Oh, and @latika_tillis we owe you our lives. Our finance coach and great friend, thank you for all you have done and are doing to ensure we never go back, only forward. We love you tremendously. Happy Thursday Gramily! Love you, be blessed 🤎 #blacklove #blackmarriage #couplestiktok #healthylove #healthymarriage #marriedcouple #financialfreedom

How many “Thank you’s” did you count!?? Lol This is what marriage is all about! Give and take, appreciation, ensuring the other knows their value to the family, to the relationship. Someone shared that they feel we look too perfect and that got me to thinking. I immediately became so grateful for her comment because though we arent prefect, our love for each other helps us to never look like what we are going through, and definitely nothing we’ve been through. We experience set backs, faced with mountains and have to overcome obstacles like everyone else. But, we always face our challneges and never allow the moments of sourness keep us from all the sweetness our love affords us. What a blessing, one i pray you recieve as well because you certainmy deserve it! Happy Sunday Tok Family! Love you, be blessed. 🤎 #adayinthelife #breakfastinbed #king #husbandandwife #blacklove #mommyvlog #couplegoal #marriedlife #marriedcouple #girldadtiktok

We have been asked before to share what our work days look like and now that we have pivoted our content to more “day in the life,” we are so excited to share glimpse into our day. We never want anyone to think it is just easy to work with your spouse. But, we must admit, when your spouse is your best friend, there will never be a moment that will take this level of joy away. We have days where we don’t see eye to eye, whether about the business or our everyday life. However, like every other obstacle, we are never the enemy, the problem is and that mindset saves us every time. Do we always remember that in the heat of the moment, not always lol! But we are spiritual beings having a human experience so human emotions will be felt and human errors will be made. Let us know if you’d like to see more days like this!! Full YouTube video of @zara try on haul will be live later tonight! Happy Saturday Tok Family! Love you, see you next time. 🤎 #adayinthelife #adayinmylife #businesspartner #lifepartners #marriedmybestfriend #blacklove #blackmarriage #blackmarriagemovement #tryonhaul

You deserve a love that will step back when God tells you it’s time for YOU to shine on your own. A love that won’t feel defeated because of the places God takes but will support you in the way Gods path for you requires them to. Last night, Jonathan not only felt inclined to chauffeur me to the @riskydinnerconvo event, but he also made sure to film the content for me before the event started and this prayer, THIS PRAYER, top everything off so beautifully! The whole day, he was reminding of things I needed to do, taking over around the house so that i had time to do hair and makeup, ironed my dress (and got frustrated because side it wasn’t ironing properly and offered to run out and find me another dress real quick lol). I glowed brightly last night because he prepared my spirit, MY SOUL, to be a witness for Gods grace, mercy and favor through sharing my testimony! I was so nervous, until i read his message. While we experienced this story together, i appreciate him recognizing that no one can tell it better than myself. Never, ever, allow anyone to dim your light because theirs is struggling. In marriage, you will never both have the same strengths, opportunities nor personal advancements. Supporting each other is how you combine your success to make your family as a whole reach Gods true purpose. Be on the look out to see how this event went and the ridiculous statistics we learned about when it come to HIV in black woman. These numbers WILL come down in Jesus name, Amen! Happy Saturday Gramily! Love you, be blessed 🤎 #blacklove #manofgod #marriedandhappy #powerofprayer #marriedmybestfriend #couplestiktok #husbandandwife #cervicalcancer #hpv #testimony

Whew, what a full day we had lol! This was Saturday and we were truly all over the place. 1. @krusteaz makes pumpkin bread mix, sold @costco , and they make amazing pancakes. Now, the mix is a little more difficult to cook as a pancake than typical pancake mix but who wants perfect pancakes, right lol. 2. London and I have been syncing a lot in the last 4-6 months. Being that I’m the glue that holds this family together lol and she is the reliable big sister, having both of us down at the same time every month is TOUGH on the rest of the family. But, with Jonathan here to love us both through it, we overcome so beautifully. With a damaged cervix, i don’t know how I’d make it without him! 3. Reign is such a Queen. Sometimes she wants all the hugs and kisses and sometimes, she doesn’t lol. Like girl, stop acting like we are trying to hurt you lol. We just want some love lol. 4. Jonathan’s favorite thing to do is make forts for the girls and he will literally make it out of anything. He had that type of childhood and I’m so grateful the girls do to. 5. Yeah those caps stayed on for about an hour at the pool and the big girls ended up still needing their hair washed 😩. 6. Bible study as a family is so rewarding. The girls learn so much from church but it’s such a blessing to ensure they are growing in a Godly way ourselves. Even Reign had her little children’s Bible and knows what it is. God is so amazing! Happy Thursday Tok Family. Love you, be blessed. #adayinthelife #adayinmylife #blackfamilies #healthylove #mommyvlogger #healthymarriage #blackfamilygoals #girlmomlife #gentleparenting #motherhoodunplugged #momof3 #girldads #poolday #thedadgang