When someone tells us something that’s inconvenient for them to say, we should pay close attention . . . because they know themselves much better than we do.

I believe many of you will relate to this . . . You break up with someone or tell them after a couple of dates that you don't feel you'd be a good fit. And then, guilt creeps in. And even though you know you did the right thing, the pain seems to become unbearable. Why is that? Well, maybe this is what your guilt actually means. 👆 // Thank you, @Chris Williamson, for having me! #MatthewHussey #ChrisWillx #LoveLife #LoveLifeBook #HealingJourney #Guilt #Dating

When we like someone, we want to do everything we can to please them or make them happy. But there’s a danger in doing that. If we’re not careful, we can start abandoning our own needs. We morph our entire world into one that suits them, ultimately risking losing ourselves in the process. Has this ever happened to you? Let me know in the comments! P.S. This is one of the biggest pieces of advice I would give to my younger self. If you want to find out all 7 things I wish I knew when I was dating, head over to MatthewHussey.com/blog or tap the link in my IG profile to watch my new YouTube video.

This is the first thing I wish I knew when I was dating . . . but this isn’t the only thing! There are actually 7 pieces of advice I would give to my younger self, which I share in my new YouTube video (via the link in my bio). #MatthewHussey #LoveLife #LoveLifeBook #Dating #DatingAdvice #FindingLove

“I just don’t feel attracted to nice guys.” Does this resonate with you? Over my career, this is one of the things I’ve heard a lot from the people I coach. If you find yourself having the same thought, then this video may provide some answers as to why that is. // Thank you, @lewishowes, for having me! Don’t forget to listen to the full episode on his YouTube channel.   #MatthewHussey #LewisHowes #Dating #HealingJourney #InnerChild #FindingLove #ToxicRelationships