What we’re not going to do is hide ourselves. Here’s what we’re going to do instead. #1: Decide that the body of TODAY is worthy of wearing clothes you feel good in. The longer you wait for the “perfect body/size” to come, the longer you remain a match to waiting. You also reinforce the belief that something is wrong with the body you have right now, which quite frankly….is just silly. #2: Start to let go of the baggy clothes. Baggy clothing actually does the opposite of what you think it does. We use it as a security blanket to cover parts of our bodies we’re not comfortable with. But in reality, baggy fabric is what I call a “visual compounded”. It actually makes the area it sits on top of look bigger…not smaller. It puts visual emphasis on the area you’re most likely NOT trying to put emphasis on. #3: Choose something more fitted. This may feel uncomfortable if you’ve gotten really used to seeing your body in baggy clothes. Your eye needs to get used to the change. Your fit doesn’t need to be skin tight….but like all the examples in the video, we’re looking for something that skims over the natural shape of your body. #4: The most defined horizontal line in your outfit should sit above the lower part of your stomach. This will also take some getting used to if it’s not what you’re doing. Having no definition through your midsection, just like #2, will make your body appear larger than it is. If you’re not comfortable with this on its own, add an outer layer over top like a blazer or cardigan. What questions do you have about this body? #learnyourstyle #styleover40 #styleover50 #styleover60 #styleover70 #stylecourse #menopausestylist #menopausestyletips #stylecoach #styletips #whattowear #bodytypestyling #midsizefashion #midsizestyle

This is a community for us all to learn together! If you’ve got a question, I can guarantee there’s a whole bunch of other women here who are looking to understand the same thing. Send me your questions about style, body, mindset, confidence, etc and I’ll answer in an upcoming video. Add your question in the comments! 🤍 #learnyourstyle #styleover40 #styleover50 #styleover60 #styleover70 #stylecourse #menopausestylist #menopausestyletips #stylecoach #styletips #whattowear #personalstylist #womensstyle #stylequestions

A lot of women use Pinterest for style ideas. Very few know how to use it to actually cause improvement in the way they dress. I absolutely could not run my business without using this website. For every single package I offer, every single program, every single style transformation…..we build and manage it all on this platform. Lots of women use Pinterest for getting style ideas, most aren’t using it to nearly its full extent, and 99.9% aren’t using it properly. (ex. most are using it like Instagram when it should actually be used like Google.) If you want to learn how to use it like a personal stylist, so that you can start 10x-ing your style results immediately… DM me the word PINTEREST, or put it below in the comments, and I’ll send you access to a FREE training! #learnyourstyle #styleover40 #styleover50 #styleover60 #styleover70 #stylecourse #menopausestylist #menopausestyletips #stylecoach #outfitideas #styletips #whattowear

Unwavering trust in life’s ability to provide for you is what creates your happily ever after life…today. 💫💫💫

As you’re waiting to have more money to work on your style, There’s women improving their outfits using only the clothes they already own, because they don’t have a budget to invest in anything new but they’re certainly not letting that be the reason that stops them. As you’re waiting to lose weight before you feel more confident in your image, There’s women learning how to dress the body they have right now, knowing that feeling good about the way they present themselves is the secret to creating a harmonious relationship with their body. Waiting NEVER attracts the outcome you actually desire. Waiting ONLY attracts more waiting. If you want change, but you’re telling yourself change can’t occur until something outside of you occurs, I want to remind you that you’ve got the formula backwards. It’s not external change which then leads to finally feeling better on the inside. It’s internal decision to make change from where you are, SO THAT the external can then change in accordance. #learnyourstyle #styleover40 #styleover50 #styleover60 #styleover70 #stylecourse #menopausestylist #menopausestyletips #stylecoach