You're scrolling through TikTok, partner nudges your arm, whispers a joke. Crickets. You barely glance up, muttering, "Uh-huh." Honey, that's a missed connection waiting to happen! Think of attention like a love bank. Every "uh-huh" is a withdrawal, every engaged response a deposit. When your partner reaches out, even for a silly quip, acknowledge it! Show them their voice matters, their presence is noticed. ✨ Here's a quick Perel-approved hack: the 3-second rule. ⏱️ When they try to connect, put down your phone, look them in the eye, and give them 3 full seconds of your attention. It's not about the grand gesture, it's about saying, "You get me, and I see you." #relationshipgoals #communication #estherperel #lovelanguages #microinteractions #tiktoktherapy #makeconnections #motivationstop