ITS JUST POINTLESS!!!! 🙈 #familyfirst #motherslove #raisingchildren #cleaninghacks #tidyhome #messychild #fatherandson #parentingtips #parentstruggles #mumandson #coparents #singlemoms #momlove #dadlife

YOUR ROLE DOESNT CHANGE...⬇️ The ONLY person responsible for your role in your childs life is you - not the other parent! Not any other partner they get with❌️ Just YOU! Now obviously your access may look different based on circumstances but the way you are as a parent... The way you choose to show up✅️ The effort you make✅️ The love you show✅️ Those things will never be based on anyone else other than you.💯 Stop getting caught up and distracted and instead focus on being the parent your child needs you to be 🙏🏼 #fatherandson #familylife #raisingchildren #childfocused #divorcedmoms #divorcedmom #coparent #coparents #singlemoms #singleparentstruggle #bonusmom #hisandhers #fatherstruggles #motherslove #momlove #mumandson #familyfirst #coparentingstruggles

TAKE THIS ONE IN...⬇️ Grandparents play a vital role in a childs life, offering love, stability, guidence and wisdom. 💙 However some grandparents are pushed away when coparent relationships break down, while others choose to walk away in support of their child (in this case the father) 🙈 Please understand that when you choose to stay silent when you know something is not right, and your son is not doing all he can. You are becoming a part of the problem 🤔 Now this isnt to say your words or actions can change how a father (your son) chooses to behave, but its allowing your voice to be heard and showing that person, you do not agree with their actions. 💯 Our focus from all roles should be the child and whats best for them. ✅️ And although your son will always be your  child, he is know a father and a grown man who has a responsibility which needs to be addressed.🙏🏼 #fatherhood #responsibility #singlemoms #singlemum #momlife #raisingboys2men #raisingchildren #childfocused #childrenswellbeing #healthycoparenting #toxiccoparenting #fatherstruggles #singlefather #divorcesupport #divorcedmoms #coparentingstruggles #grandparents #accountability #grandmom #mummyandson

ITS THE ONLY WAY...💯💯 I now understand what my mum went through! Whenever someone says "all you do is clean", i know straight away they dont have kids ✅️ #fatherlife #singlemoms #momlife #parenting101 #raisingchildren #familyman #raisingboys2men #familyfun #fundad #thesekids #teachingkids #springcleaning #housecleaning #tidyhome #momstruggles #momsandsons #dadtodad #dadandson #divorcedparents #bonusmom

READ BEFORE YOU COMMENT...⬇️ I didnt vibe with the other man simply meant we didnt spend time around each other when they were in a relationship. Now onto the main point as I already hear men especially becoming defensive 🙈 I am not saying there are no risks to bringing new people into a childs life but i am saying that we should normalise the IDEA of mum/dad moving on. 💯 This doesnt mean normalising a new person every week - lets really listen to what is being said rather than finding worse case scenario's.👂🏼 The same woman you was happy to give a child too is now the same woman you believe makes bad choices with men 🤷🏽‍♂️ This woman chose you at one point! 🤔 Again, this is not to neglect the potential harm out there, however i do not think that we should avoid moving on and eventually blending families. Instead we should focus on ensuring we are comfortable and know enough about them before we do so 💯 Men and women will want you to be frozen the moment after you break up because you have "their child".❌️ Mum and dad are entitled to find new love and we should normalise your child EVENTUALLY being able to see that.🙏🏼 #coparenting #coparent #blendedfamily #healthyrelarionship #stepfamily #couplegoals #marriagegoals #singlemomlife #Singleparenting #singlemom #singledadlife #lovelife #his&hers #relationshiptalk #lovelessons #divorcedmoms #bonusmom #fatherstruggles #familylove #mommylife #futurewife #movingon @Mama Hebz 💍