GUYYYYSSSSSSS. Have you ever dated someone who was all wrong for you but you stayed with them because of “the idea” they served in your head. Like on paper it makes sense. All the boxes checked for “good marriage material at first, but then when you look at what’s actually taking place in the relationship, it ain't it.   This is that. The idea of owning real estate and making lots of money is stronger than the reality of what’s actually taking place. “The idea” is keeping my guy in a state of delusion.    Take from this what you will 🤷🏽‍♀️ #personalfinance #personalfinancetips #buyingahouse #debt #debtpayoff