First Mother’s Day 🌷 surprise fully planned and prepped by 2 Jie2s. 😍 Actually I heard them at 6am so I turned on my cam and found out they were secretly 🤫 preparing a surprise - so sweet! (I actually teared while “spying” on them cuz’ so touched la! 🥲) Definitely a nice surprise this morning and my heart was full 🥰, until the big Jie2 decided to throw random attitude due to miscommunication- which lead to both of us crying. 😢😢😢 I was sad (hurt actually 💔) bcuz’ those 2 (older girls) were taking turns to blow me with pre-teens attitude. 😮‍💨 Thats what our parents really meant by “next time when you have your own children then you will know”!! Yes, 我知错了! 🙈 💬 I want to take a moment to say: let this day be whatever you need it to be. ❤️Maybe there's joy and happiness and love in your heart for your child and you're sincerely grateful to be a mother. 🖤Maybe it's that and you also have grief and pain for a mama you are missing or the mother you never had. 💜Maybe you envy those whose picture-perfect moments fill your feed. 🤍Maybe your heart is aching for the baby you lost as you also celebrate the new bundle of love and life you get to call your child. 🩵Maybe there's pain you're not yet a Mother. 💛Maybe you're struggling with your mental health right now and have mixed feelings about being a mother. Whatever Mother's Day is or isn't for you, it's all okay. 👌 There's room and space for the joy and the grief. It's okay to talk about and feel the other side of Mother's Day. Sending out big virtual hugs to all Mamas out there! 💕💕💕 Its not all rainbows 🌈 & butterflies 🦋 through this journey. But remember, you’re not alone! ✨ Happy Mother’s Day! 💐 · · · · · #fyp #mothersday2024 #mothersday #mothersdayspecial #mothersdaygift #mothersdaysurprise #mothersdaycelebration #surprise #surprisemomwith #surprisesurprise #surprised #celebration #celebrate #sgfam #sgfamily #family #familytime #sgsisters #sisters #motherdaughter #motheranddaughter #rollercoasterride #emotions #emotional #emotionaldamage #emotionalmoments #happymothersday #happymothersday2024