Deconstructing gender norms within our marriage has been a challenge and so much work for BOTH my husband and I and im just so fortunate he’s game for #smashingthepatriarchy with me. I loce that we both have more mental space for each other and ourselves. Hooray for growth and movement not only withing ourselves and relationships but also generations. ❤️ ps. Ive grown to really enjoy soccer more, feel NO resentment towards it AND after 15 years of me begging my husband to get a hobby, he has one! Year 3 of coaching and no end in sight. 😍😍 #defaultparent #momlife #gendernormsbroken #gendernorms #marriagegoals #marriedlife #momlife #soccerfamily #parenting #coparenting #momguilt #momstress #selfcare #momselfcare #momsover30 #goodenoughparenting #parentsoftiktok #parentingtips #defaultparentthings