The person who sets their boundaries is in control of them, no one else. If anyone tries to pick holes in your boundaries, shame you for them, challenge them, force you to defend them, change them or manipulate them, they're a 🚩🚩🚩. No is no, boundaries are boundaries, it's not for their comfort, it's for your safety. ❤️ #boundaries #peoplepleaser #traumarecovery #abuseawareness #didsystem