ADHD women and narcissistic partners: the most common pairing. ADHD individuals get so caught up in the highs of a new novel individual especially a romantic partner that they tend to hyer-fixate on them. This leads to missing out on all of the red flags that present. At the beginning the pairing seems like a “perfect match” but over time the ADHD traits remain and the mask of the narcissist falls off. All of the things they thought were cute or special that derived from your ADHD will become the very things that they hate you for. Theyll start to call you defensive, critical, judgemental and so much more because your adhd pulls you to ask questions, curiosity and need to understand. Guess what? Because you probably have some trauma earlier in your life due to adhd, youll believe them. Omg i am critical. I am judgemental. Im not actually empathetic. I am defensive. Its how they wittle you down and shrink you smaller and smaller. They get you to do it to yourself. #narcissistsurvivor #narctok #adhd #audhd #narcabuse #narcbehavior #narcissistbehavior #toxicpartner #narcissisticpartner #breakup #trauma #abusesurvivor #manipulationcontrol