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Script Lets breakdown para social relationships and trauma bonding Para social relationships according to findapsychologist.org “ are one-sided relationships, where one person extends emotional energy, interest and time, and the other party, the persona, is completely unaware of the other’s existence.” In short they are the one sided relationships created by consumers for public figures. For example stan culture between listeners/consumers and musical artists, or the relationships between state fans and football teams/players. These relationships are specifically formed when individual consumers “are repeatedly exposed to a media persona, and the individuals develop a sense of intimacy, perceived friendship, and identification” with personalities within the media according to psychologists at Nova Southeastern University. Parasocial relationships aren’t inherently negative. Many creators and figures in the eye of the public grant consumers a minor form of security and comfort. Whether it be from the content the figures make, the words they use to inspire and entertain and the interactions they have with their fans/audiences. At which point do parasocial relationships become negative? These relationships become negative if they are trauma bonds. A trauma bond is a relationship created through positive reinforcement of abuse and abusive behavior. According to the Jennifer Litner PhD medically reviewed healthline article written by Crystal Raypole and Tom Rush “typical signs of trauma bonding include: * denial of the other person’s fault * justification of their actions * increasing isolation from support structures * increasing dependence on the partner” In other words if the part that you play within the parasocial relationship that you’ve created with a public figure leads you to deny when they are wrong/not hold them accountable, make excuses for their wrong doings, isolate yourself and that person from criticism and or lead you to be dependent on said figure, it is possible you have a parasocial relationship built on trauma. #fypシ #celebrities #parasocialrelationships