These are dismissive sayings. Ung mga taong hilig sabihin 'to, ang totoong nagagawa nila is tinotolerate nila ung iba instead of defending who's on the right and protecting that person's sake. These sayings are just enabling the other person for the sake na 'wala ng gulo'. By saying this, hindi nako-korek ung pagkakamali, hindi naaayos ung disagreement. Nawawalan ng ingay pero wala namang nangyayari. Nagiging hinanakit lang para dun sa isa at ego booster dun sa kabila. So ikaw, once you hear this.. I hope you draw the line from being the bigger person and tolerating disrespect. If they can't stand up for your name, be the one to speak up. Be your own protector in this world full of enablers and I hope you encourage others too to do the same. ✨