Remember, there's a massive difference between your child respecting you and fearing you 💯 When your child obeys you or behaves well, is it because they genuinely respect you or just because they're afraid of you? When fear becomes the driving force behind their obedience—whether it's through yelling, punishment, or outbursts—it can lead to resentment. It might feel easier to lash out or resort to aggression to make your point, but positive affirmations and understanding your child's emotions can yield even better results ❤️ This applies to all kinds of relationships. Whether it's with a partner, boss, or friends, using fear to control someone's behavior is a form of manipulation and narcissism. It might not always be obvious, but even subtle forms of psychological manipulation can be harmful. Many people who struggle with people-pleasing tendencies learned them from trying to please their parents. If your child feels like they have to walk on eggshells around you to avoid your reaction, it's a sign of unhealthy dynamics. That's why it's crucial to regulate our own emotions and foster healthy, respectful relationships. We're all human and imperfect. We inherit tools and knowledge from our upbringing, but that doesn't mean it's always right. Recognizing our mistakes, learning from them, and striving to be better parents is what matters. The most common desire among those seeking help is to break the cycle of unhealthy parenting they experienced. If that resonates with you, drop a "❤️" in the comments! 🙌🏼 #RespectNotFear #PositiveParenting #EmotionalIntelligence #HealthyRelationships #SelfAwareness #NarcissismAwareness #PersonalGrowth #FamilyHealing #CompassionateParenting #SupportiveEnvironment #EmpathyMatters #BreakTheCycle #LoveAndUnderstanding #MindfulLiving #EmotionalWellbeing #CultivateEmpathy #SelfReflection #CommunicationIsKey #GrowthMindset #BuildingConnections #PrioritizeChildren #HealingJourney #HealthyBoundaries #NurturingRelationships #LoveAndRespect #fyp #fypシ