A hospital birth completely removes the papa from the birthing process except to force them to observe the mother in physical & emotional pain while seemingly restricted from resolving her & baby of said pain. This is by design. They want the men emasculated, they want the broken family because this produces more trauma. Trauma locks the whole family into the system for life. The male ego untamed & unconscious will choose to abandon this scenario before they choose to work on themselves because it’s easier. This is why weak men run. Wait wait I can hear you already “he was a loser before the birth” heard! But why? Unmanaged trauma is why. His daddy was too proud too. His daddy didn’t show out either. His mama birthed a boy to heal her male related trauma but instead she took ownership of her baby boy and ruined his ability to form healthy relationships. She emasculated him to feed her unhealthy craving of being loved. If he does not heal that and build his healthy masculinity up and create strong boundaries with her then he will steadily be a weak man child. Summary- men who do not man well, run fast. They disappear because their ego energetically can not handle their inability to provide and protect. I’d like to see the facts & figures of absent fathers who were present during the birth of their babies at home. I’d like to see the stats for absent fathers who were side lined during their baby & mamas traumatic hospital birth. I believe home births empower the papa and honor the family unit, embrace the trinity that is the mother, father & child, often resulting in the father being the first hands to touch the baby as they enter the world, the first eyes to see the actual birth of the babies entrance. This energetic connection will bind the father in & they will feel energetically invested, making it a harder choice to leave. Let me know in the comments if you’ve experienced the opposite or if this resonates with you. Comment “energetics” if you would like to listen to my new audio product “energetics of birth” ✨Follow @themamachel 📖Pick up my book “Unweaving the Web of Trauma” linked in my bio. #fatherwound #absentfathers #paternallove