(Point No. 1) Wedding is one of the best growth opportunities not because of the sacred union with your partner (that too lol) but because it shows you your interactions with your closest people so clearly. How much are you trying to please them for the place of luck and how much do you feel loved and supported by them? There are two kind of wedding guests. Ones that behave like everything should be about them and that you should make the wedding more like an event for them, or a party for them, and to make it as entertaining as possible. They will find things often ‘rude’. Good. Whatever. But there are also those who understand how sacred that day is, and feel absolutely honored to be invited. It feels like people forget that they don’t need to accept a wedding invite if they’re going through something in your life that will prevent them from holding space for the couple on their wedding date. I think we need to normalize saying no to wedding invites due to many reasons. To me, every single guest in the wedding is very precious, but absolutely secondary. if no one decides to come, we will still have the ceremony regardless and have the best time. No one will be ‘missed’. Sorry! So many couples compromised their presence on the wedding day, or inner peace or wedding vows because they’re trying to be ‘thoughtful’ or ‘considerate’ for their friends and family. But I also think that the expectation that the couple will be thinking about somebody else on their wedding days is rude. Honestly, it’s the only day for them about them and we are lucky to be witnesses. So let them be rude. And you only think it’s rude because you don’t know how to choose yourself and a triggers you. #bride #wedding #bride2024