The crazy plot twist of geting married almost exactly ten years after (to the day) is still bonkers. Decenter men so you dont settle for less and are prepared to not marry. I was totally content with a goldengirls ending. That made me bot worry about dating too much. Desperation can definitely sets us up for abuse and exploutation @Melanie Hamlett #4B #decentermen #latebloomer #celibacy #betteroffalone #fyp #dontsettle #fyp