Put a finger down challenge 👁 #putafingerdown #putafingerdownchallenge #challenge #blindreact #attachmentstyle #disorganizedattachment #fyp

They can’t leave you if you ✨leave them first✨ 🤭 #Free99 #attachmentstyle #relationship #mentalhealth

Hyper independence and self sabotage 🫡 #selfsabotage #attachmentstyle #innerchild #selflove #subconsciousmind #healingjourney

#stitch with @heyitscheyna Attachment styles. #attachmentstyle #attachmenttheory #attachmentstyles #anxiousattachment #secureattachment #relationshipadvice

Might fuck around and invent a new #attachmentstyle. #visualdiary #nyc

when anxious met avoidant 👻#attachmentstyle #attachmenttheory #dating #anxiousattachment #avoidantattachment #anxious

attachment style revealed at the end 👀 #traumahealing #attachmentstyle #disorganizedattachment #fearfulavoidantattachment #selflove #infatuation

Attachment Styles in Romantic Relationships. #attachmentstyle#attachmenttheory#attachmentstyles#relationshipgoals#relationshiptips#datingadvice

Focus on the jumps not the exact time frames #attachmentstyle #avoidantattachment #dating #relationships #breakups #singlelife

The subtle red flags of dismissive avoidance. #Love #Relationships #AttachmentStyle #FYP #ForYouPage

First, seggs is a code word you can hopefully figure out because I’m not about to get kicked off. Secondly, there ARE other reasons like feeling like their husband doesn’t help them with the workload, or affairs, etc. BUT this is THE biggest reason by far. Calm down and breathe, I know it may be hard to hear and you’ll get triggered. But I am here to help you start getting your needs met. Don’t shoot the messanger. I am direct and I make no apologies for my assertiveness. I’m a coach not a therapist. #love #relationships #intimacy #marriage #attachmentstyle #fyp #foryoupage

Me & my therapist chat anxious attachment styles on ep. 38 of our podcast 🌹 link in bio podcast #anxiousattachment #anxiousattachmentstyle #anxiousgirl #anxioustok #anxioustiktok #anxioushabits #toxictok #relatable #MentalHealthMatters #mentalhealthawareness #healingjourney #healingtiktok #healingtok #traumatok #traumahealing #trauma #attachment #mytherapistsaid#attachmentstyle #attachmentissues #attachmenttheory #therapy #freetherapy #therapist #dating #datingtips #datingadvice #datingcoach

are you feeling bored in your relationships? #codependency #attachmentstyle #OneSliceChallenge #boundaries #relationshipanxiety #fearfulavoidantattachment #anxiousattachment

attachment styles explained! if this helped, hit the + sign for more and let me know in the comments what YOUR attachment style is. #psychology #attachmentstyle #attachment

Our attachment styles deeply impact how we view sexual intimacy, how it makes us feel, and what we seek (or don’t seek) from a partner #anxiousattachment #avoidantattachment #attachmentstyle #attachmenttheory

This is why I insist that parents need support: they’re healing themselves, they’re healing their children, they often need to heal some parts of their marriage, and for many parents, they’re also supporting the physical + medical needs of THEIR OWN aging parents in the background! And ha, not to mention if they’re employed 🙃🙃 This is why family therapy is so important. We MUST begin by supporting the parents so that they can lead the healing of their family. In the family therapy that I have been extensively trained in and practice, Emotionally Focused Family Therapy, we divide therapy into two phases: 1) parental openness 2) child vulnerability. We do not bring the child and parent together until the parent is open to the child’s needs and vulnerability. This protects the child from getting hurt further and sets the parent up to successfully work with their child. I decided to role play this particular dyad 1) bc I see it in around 1/3rd of mom-daughter dyads that I’ve worked with 2) I also saw a good bit of this in the comment section of that viral post about parents taking accountability. More than one comment outright said, “they should validate me.” Lol. My aim is not to attack mothers or fathers. It is to show where things go wrong and how that creates pain that then becomes a legacy of pain when we pass it down to our children. Family therapy involves examining our own relationships and experiences as children, identifying the pain that we have there, and working to heal both our own pain and that of our children’s. And this is what the work looks like right from the first parent session. #familytherapy #family #mom #dad #kids #dysfunctionalfamily #childhood #childhoodtrauma #cptsd #trauma #nocontact #nocontactwithparent #relationship #telationships #communication #attachment #attachmentstyle #attachmentissues #anxiousattachmentstyle #avoidantattachment #anxiousattachment #therapy #therapysessions #therapytiktok #therapist #mentalhealth #skit #roleplay #fyp #foryou #parenting #parenting101 #parentingtip #parents #parent #parentifiedchild

Siapa yang anxious attachment? 🙋🏻‍♀️ ☑️ Overthinking ☑️ Cemburuan ☑️ Curigaan ☑️ Ketakutan diselingkuhi ☑️ Ketakutan diabaikan ☑️ Mengatur dan mengendalikan pasangan ☑️ Pernah atau sering dengar pasanganmu mengucapkan ini “Aku salah terus di mata kamu!” “Ngomel melulu!” “Rasanya aku tuh ga bisa bikin kamu happy!” “Kamu ngatur-ngatur terus..” Ada tanda ini di kamu? #anxiousattachment #psikologi #dating #relationship #anxious #attachmentstyle #twelvi #lifecoachindonesia

Anxious attachment styles are created from unhealed wounds with distrust. Fear of abandonment, fear of lying, manipulation, etc. are all evolved out of unhealed trauma and if left unresolved bleed into our present relationships and continue to sabotage us and any potential for a healthy relationship. Inside The Inner Work book we have a section on the unhealed wound of distrust also called the theme of consciousness of fear. We cover how this wound is caused by specific traumas, the coping mechanisms it creates, and what it will take to heal this. #innerwork #relationshipadvice #anxiousattachment #attachmentstyle #attachmenttheory #anxiousattachmentstyle

This doesnt mean you should put up with it, BUT it can be helpful to know when it’s happening #avoidant #therapy #relationships #datingadvice #attachmentstyle

haha! i have issues with hyperindependence and not trusting anyone! lol! #avoidantattachment #avoidantattachmentstyle #attachmentstyle #relationships #love #dating #notworthit

Replying to @shannox96 hopefully this helps clarify things! 💛 #anxiousattachment #avoidant #avoidantattachment #attachment #attachmentstyle #anxious #triggers #insecureattachment #relationships #anxiousavoidanttrap #commitment #commitmentissues #innerchild #innerchildwounds #innerchildhealing

never ever 👏👏😘 #fyp #highvaluewoman #highvalueman #highvalue #narctok #narcissist #breakuptiktok #Relationship #attachmentstyle #anxietyrelief #MentalHealth #therapytiktok #singlemomsoftiktok #Capcut #nargosed #narcissist #narctok #abuse #survivor #trauma #traumatok #narcissist #domesticabuseawareness #domesticviolencesurvivor #dating #datingadvice #datingstorytime #datingover40 #datingover30 #relatablecontent #Love #MomsofTikTok #marriage #marriagegoals #country #countrygirl #countryboy #carhartt #carharttprincess #disorganizedattachment #anxiousattachment #anxious #avoidantattachment #avoidant #avoidant #doeshelikeme #cheat #cheater #cheating #cheatingboyfriend #alpha #alphamale #masculine #man

The extremely predictable relationship trajectory of the DA. #love #relationships #attachmentstyle #fyp #foryoupage

This attachment style is by far the most confusing. #attachmentstyle #fyp #fypシ #foryoupage #elfitup

The Inner Work can help you understand, address, and heal any and all human issues you may find yourself struggling with. In the case of anxiety our self-esteem development has been stunted because of exposure to wounds of distrust. Whether from parents, friends, abuse, society, etc. we have been imprinted with a deep sense of fear of the unknown. If we don’t reconcile this subconscious imprint we become anxious in our life. The healing path for this person is to accept that while painful things can happen in this life, we must trust OURSELVES that we will keep ourselves safe and know what to do in each moment. This focuses our healing on our own discernment and respect for caution. With this trust of ourselves established we can move through the unknown and the possible dangers of the world knowing that we will be ok despite the possiblities of hurt. This then moves us up in our development to face our wound of inadequacy, or in other words our ability to develop skills and accept we may have to learn new things that we currently don’t know. This is a huge step in our self-esteem because instead of being stuck in fear, we are able to be face our fears and learn new skills to overcome them, rather than letting them overcome us. When we feel adequate in our abilities to navigate the unknowns of life, we get one huge step closer to confidence and peace of mind. Get The Inner Work to learn more about the healing journey and how to reach your full potential of a life of true freedom and lasting happiness. Why am I anxious Where does anxiety come from Why do I have anxiety Why are they so anxious Fear of the unknown Anxious attachment #innerwork #theinnerwork #theinnerworkbook #innerchildhealing #shadowwork #selfhelpbooks #traumahealing #innerchildwork #innerchild #booksthatchangedmylife #healingjourney #attachmentissues #attachmentstyle #mentalhealth #anxietytips #anxietydisorder #anxiety

Why do they go so defensive?! 💔#WorldPrincessWeek #fyp #foryoupage #love #relationships #attachmentstyle

I see you sis 👀 #attachmentstyle #relationship #fyp #healingtiktok #viral

This is the number one predictor of relationship success. #Love #Relationships #AttachmentStyle #FYP #ForYouPage

The answer so many are looking for. Seek God’s character. Do not rely on your own interpretation of scripture. That was my downfall. I had to seek extremely knowledgeable biblical scholars who have spent their lives, studying scripture, especially the old testament. I had absolutely no idea what some of that scripture meant I always had a view of vengeful, punishing God. Boy was I so wrong! Those were lies from the enemy! #Love #Relationships #AttachmentStyle #Christian #God #Spirituality #Faith #FY #ForYouPage

That last part 👏👏✨ #fyp #highvaluewoman #highvalueman #highvalue #narctok #narcissist #breakuptiktok #Relationship #attachmentstyle #anxietyrelief #MentalHealth #therapytiktok #singlemomsoftiktok #Capcut #nargosed #narcissist #narctok #abuse #survivor #trauma #traumatok #narcissist #domesticabuseawareness #domesticviolencesurvivor #dating #datingadvice #datingstorytime #datingover40 #datingover30 #relatablecontent #Love #MomsofTikTok #marriage #marriagegoals #country #countrygirl #countryboy #carhartt #carharttprincess #disorganizedattachment #anxiousattachment #anxious #avoidantattachment #avoidant #avoidant #doeshelikeme #cheat #cheater #cheating #cheatingboyfriend #alpha #alphamale #masculine #man

The biggest need of the fearful avoidant inside of a romantic relationship #love #relationships #attachmentstyle #fyp #foryoupage

#PringlesCanHands #avoidantattachment #anxiousattachment #attachmenttheory #relationshipadvice #attachmentstyle #breakups #therapy #healing #datinghack #relationships

Reply to @jfrog2288 A.P.’s will consider this “base level” communication, not realizing that it’s com on expert mode. #anxiousattachment #attachmenttheory #attachmentstyle #breakups #relationships #dating

Get help before he leaves 💔 #Love #AttachmentStyle #Relationships #Divorce #FYP #ForYouPage

If your spouse is a DA you feel extremely neglected and downright invisible most of the time. I can help. #love #attachmentstyle #relationships #fyp #foryoupage

😅Don’t make this dating mistake If you have an anxious attachment, you’re likely sabotaging your relationships Make sure to watch this video to find out the 4 tips to build and maintain healthy relationships Are you ready to overcome your anxious attachment? @attachmentbro 📲DM me today to start fixing your anxious attachment #adamlanesmith #relationshipadvice #attachment #attachmentstyle #attachmentissue #anxiousattachment #attachmentissue #anxiousrelationship #anxiousdating

#relationships #relationshipadvice #avoidantattachment #anxiousattachment #anxiousavoidanttrap #attachmenttheory #attachmentstyle #breakups #datingcheatcodes

Behavior you perceive as ‘needy’ makes a lot of sense when you get curious about someone’s history. #anxiousattachment #anxiousattachmentstyle #attachmentstyle

This week do something that helps you to remove yourself from the relationships that you know you no longer want to be a part of. #clowns#circus#relationshiptips#relationshipadvice#selfawareness#emotionalhealthtips#mentalhealthtips#motivationalvideo#growthmindset#toxicpeopleoutyourlife#fyp#paulscanlon#relaitonshiptipsforwomen#removeyourself #stopdoingthis#boundariesarehealthy#healthyboundaries #attachmentstyle#stopblaming

Secure v fearful avoidant. The master of mixed messages 😎 #attachmentstyle #fearfulavoidantattachment

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I refuse to be embarassed for keeping it real as hell 😤 #attachmentstyle #attachmenttheory

Let’s see if the algorithm put the right version of this video on your feed 👀#anxiousattachment #relationships #attachmentstyle #selfworth #love

Replying to @yoyo ทำไมบางคนชอบทำร้ายแฟน #หมอกลาง #หอสมุดแห่งชาติ #tiktokuni #เรียนหมอ #ความรัก #attachmentstyle

cara komunikasi untuk anxious attachment style #anxiousattachment #anxiousattachmentstyle #avoidantattachment #attachmentstyle #psikologi #mentalhealth #relationship #dating

it’s all connected 💫 #situationships #taxicabtheory #sexandthecity #datingishard #relationships #socialization #avoidantattachment #attachmentstyle

Disorganized/fearful avoidant attachment: Hoping this finds the ppl tht need it ❤️ #attachmentstyle #disorganizedattachment #fearfulavoidantattachment #carolynsilva #silvacarolyn #trauma

You’re self-sabotaging #selfsabotage #sabotage #relateablecontent #attachmentstyle #anxiousattachment #blaming #cognitivedissonance #psychology #habits #behaviors #fyp #relationshipcoach #anger #relationshiptips #selfreflection

“Duet Maut” pasangan toxic yang paling sering terjadi adalah Avoidant-Anxious, saat perempuan Anxious yang overthinking dan cemburuan berpasangan dengan laki-laki Avoidant yang terasa dingin, acuh tak acuh, dan tak suka komitmen. Sebenarnya, dua-duanya sama. Sama-sama takut. Yang satu lari, yang satu mengejar. Yang lari, makin dikejar makin sesak nafas. Yang mengejar, makin ditinggalkan makin putus asa bahkan mengemis-ngemis. Dalan hubungan toxic, ada dua pihak di mana dua-duanya bermasalah dengan dirinya sendiri. Jadi kalau kamu dan pasangan seperti ini, ketahuilah bahwa kalian berdua sama-sama memiliki luka dan ketakutan masing-masing. Kalau kamu Anxious dan pasanganmu Avoidant, ketahuilah ini 👇 1. Apapun luka atau trauma yang membuat pasanganmu jadi seperti ini, pemulihannya 100% tanggungjawabnya sendiri. Buang jauh-jauh pemikiran bahwa cintamu bisa mengubah dia. Walau kamu pikir niatmu baik, perubahannya bukan kapasitasmu, bukan peranmu. 2. Lihat saja ke dalam dirimu, dan mulai refleksi diri. Karena faktanya, kamu yang tertarik dengan laki-laki yang avoidant, menunjukkan kamu sendiri memiliki tipe attachment yang anxious atau fearful. Orang yang Secure tidak akan tertarik pada orang yang emotionally unavailable. *disclaimer: attachment style tidak terikat pada gender, ini dapat terjadi juga dengan Pria Anxious - Wanita Avoidant, Pria Anxious - Pria Avoidant, Wanita Anxious - Wanita Avoidant. BUKAN tentang gender atau orientasi seksualmu. 👉 Di akun ini ada 98% perempuan maka saya akan berbicara ke perempuan, dan dalam konteks hubungan heteroseksual. #psikologi #attachmentstyle #relationship #pengembangandiri #lifecoachindonesia #twelvi

What not to do when they get distant #distant #relationship #communication #datingadvice #avoidantattachment #attachmentstyle #anxious #conflict #fyp #degrading #unavailablemen #unavailablewomen #dating